Validation, etc...

Sometimes my PMS just takes over and all the feelings I’ve been trying to manage just comes out. Some may see it as whining or complaining, but these are feelings that I’m feeling. I want a house where I can have a garden, I want a dog to validate me and give’s me love unconditionally, I want good honest people in my life. Oprah made some incredible statements today and it just blew my mind. Everyone is asking for the same thing; to be validated, to be seen and to be heard. For peat sakes, validate the people in your life and you will be validated in return. Tell those people in your life that they do matter, you do hear them, you do see them, and what they say matters. Something else she said also blew my mind and it was that everyone knows their purpose here and for some unknown reason I still have no clue what I’m suppose to be doing. So, tomorrow I continue my job search in a new town in the effort to get move up there and work to become part of something. This isn’t something new; I’ve been searching for most of my life and can’t seem to be noticed. With grace, I will be noticed in this new town. My heart cries to be noticed as a valuable person who has something to offer. I have so much to offer and it’s hard when I haven’t been seen, noticed, heard and validated. For peat sakes, validate the people around you, help them stand up straight, help them to know they’re seen, help them know their words & thoughts to matter to you, and in return you too will be validated in ways you never thought possible. Hugs!